7.21.2012

Love from Ashley!

I have to say THANK YOU & I love you each from the bottom of my heart for each of my blog readers who follow my blog & have reached out.  I have had so many e-mails & notes that have touched my heart, & also my Father's.  Dad was able to leave the hospital on Tuesday.  As of now, he is doing well, just resting a lot & on a very strict diet.  What we found out about his condition before he left the hospital was that he had 98% blockage in one area & 70% in another.  He is scheduled to go back in 30 days to have them go in & look at another few areas of blockage of concern.  At that time they will possibly do another stent or as the doctor mentioned an open heart bypass surgery.  They will not be clear on the extent of the blockage until they do some more searching.  They have recognized some other areas of blockage so we are praying for that right now.

These next 30 days are crucial to me.  I want as many people out there that read my blog to just throw a prayer our way not only for Dad's healing in his current state, but also healing over what could come.  We believe that through God all things are possible & I truly in my heart know that God can heal my Dad.  I am praying each day as I think of him asking God to heal what could be there & just take it away.

When I sat down this week to visit with my Dad I remember us sitting on his porch during one afternoon & him talking about how all of these comments have touched his heart.  He has read every one of them, he follows my blog daily.  He said that this was such a good testament for him personally & that God has touched him through reading these comments about truly reaching out to others in time of need showing them love, support, prayer & devotion. It's true.  Sometimes we say we will pray for someone or even think that they are going through a hard situation & don't realize the extent of really how hard it is on that person going through it.

... I was talking to a friend on the phone the other day just chocking up with her about the situation that has happened with my Dad.  I explained to her how hard it was that day to not know what was going to happen & how hard it was that my Mom was out of town rushing to be by his (our) side.  I truly know now that we don't always realize how hard something is in someones life until you actually experience yourself.  I really thought I could lose my Dad that day in that moment.  That fear is something I will never forget.

I feel like my last few posts have really been a journal in my life.  I am thankful.  I love my pictures & updates on each moment of our life, but I truly feel that when something is touching an important part of my life with my family & in my heart with something, I need to remember it forever.  I am so thankful to write my thoughts in my journal & share them with each of you.  I hope I am always taken very real, honest, humbled, & true.  I am only that.  I enjoy life's sweet moments & if I can be a light & share some of my story, I will.  

So, my week.

My week has flown by.  We have kept busy doing the usual although I must admit that I have been somewhat depressed.  Gloomy more than anything.  I found myself going to the gym trying to do my normal routine on Monday & ended up leaving my spin class because I just couldn't do it.  I had no energy & wanted to be alone.  That evening I cheered up because I was to take pictures of our awesome neighbors & their sweet family of "almost 5"!  It really made me smile & helped me get out of my funk. They have been really great neighbors to us!


We had another milestone in our life on Tuesday.  Avery got rid of her passy at the dentist.  It was the greatest idea!  The doctor just said she didn't need it anymore & she said ok.  It has been great!  Although I can't lie, we have had 2 horrible restless nights out of the ordeal, I was up all night the first night!


She did great during her X-rays.  She thought the dentist was "cool".




I have also been busy this week decorating for a baby shower that was Thursday evening.  My sweet friend 

Erica hired me to help throw Amanda's baby shower.  We all spin together.  It turned out beautiful!  I made an awesome centerpiece that I can't wait to share & show in detail how you can make it too!  If you follow me on Instagram I post tons more there!  I made a cute wreath & added all kinds of other cute details!


Here is a glimpse, I actually didn't even bring my camera in I was SO busy trying to get everything together- so all of these pictures are on my phone.  It was so nice shopping last week for these pretty goodies, it kept my mind off life a bit.



 I took Avery to the pool a few times this week & then Friday night we celebrated not having a passy so we enjoyed dinner at her favorite & jump zone!!  So much fun!



I ended my week/weekend with the greatest time of all, seeing my sweet Mom & Dad.  Chad & I went over there to visit & it was so nice.  He was looking himself & acting more himself.  I am just so thankful for this man.  What a blessing in my life.  I have said before that being at their home is like being at a resort.  Their backdoor is on the water & it's so relaxing & peaceful.  I just love the nature part of it, the boats, summer, the tree frogs, the plants, tree's, smell... you name it.  The perfect place where I think of nothing,  is their back porch! =) The good life.


Thanks again for all your support, you are beyond thought of by our entire family!



11 comments:

  1. This is by FAR my very very favorite blog to read! I feel like I know you personally and can relate to you in so many ways! I was heartbroken when I read about your dad! I felt like I have known yall forever! You have been in my prayers EVERY day! I follow you on Instagram too and I love to look at all the gorgeous pics you take! Praying for your family at this time! God is ever present in our times of need! He is much bigger than anything we ever face!

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  2. Hi Ashley im so glad your dad is doing much better and know that God is with him and your family. Stay encourage and know that God is in control of it all. I love to hear the update and know that you and your family are in my prayers. Hugs and blessing Maggie

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  3. i hae been thinking about yall and praying for your family this week! so glad your dad was able to go home! praying for the days ahead!

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  4. Your Dad is certainly in my prayers sweet girl. I think he is being covered in lots of prayers and I will continue to pray for his heart!! You're a sweet girl Ashley and I want you to know I can certainly tell you have awesome parents and a sweet little family:/)

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  5. I will pray for your family! I know how important prayer is...this past April my young, healthy husband ended up needing emergency surgery and was in the hospital due to some complications for 40 days...you just have NO idea how hard it is having a loved one sick until it happens to you. And you have NO idea how wonderful it is to know people are praying for you until you're in a situation like this. I'm so glad your dad is at home and doing better...God is the great physician and HE has your dad in the palm of his hand.

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  6. Love your blog and decorating!!! So glad your dad is doing good! Keeping him in my prayers!

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  7. Praying for you, your Dad, and your family.

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  8. I am so glad to see that your dad is doing better, and I will continue to pray for his recovery and healing:) Avery is such a doll and growing up so fast! You're right the giving her passy to the dentist is such a great idea!! Love to see a post from you and that you are doing great! Much Love!

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  9. I am usually a lurker. :) Hi! I am so glad to hear your dad is doing better. We have been praying for all of y'all. I know this has been a scary time for y'all but isn't God good.

    Still praying,

    Karmen

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  10. Just wanted to extend prayers to you, your Dad, and your whole family!

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